The Parke's

So I'm wondering how in the world do people manage a family on one income? I'm so used to being self-reliant and being able to pay all the bills and have spending money afterwards and no worries. Now I'm soooo stressed about money and making sure the bills are paid. I have looked and looked online about doing something at home but I'm not confident that any of the options are not just scams. The Army is great at providing insurance but isn't cutting it when it comes to allowing us to live on one income. So the true delema is do I go back to work and make money for us to survive and put my baby in the care of someone else?...and who is a whole other story. Or, do I stay home and have my hubby go work another job and never see him- which granted certain days you all know that this is a blessing =) but seriously. I am feeling really conflicted right now and with all the stuff going on with the dog and having to replace tires on the car etc. Finances it seems is how satan is working his b.s. on me right now. So, any ideas on how to have it all would be great right about now. Just needing to vent!